Cuddle Party

Sep. 2nd, 2026 01:41 am
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Everyone needs contact comfort sometimes. Not everyone has ample opportunities for this in facetime. So here is a chance for a cuddle party in cyberspace. Virtual cuddling can help people feel better.

We have a
cuddle room that comes with fort cushions, fort frames, sheets for draping, and a weighted blanket. A nest full of colorful egg pillows sits in one corner. There is a basket of grooming brushes, hairbrushes, and styling combs. A bin holds textured pillows. There is a big basket of craft supplies along with art markers, coloring pages, and blank paper. The kitchen has a popcorn machine. Labels are available to mark dietary needs, recipe ingredients, and level of spiciness. Here is the bathroom, open to everyone. There is a lawn tent and an outdoor hot tub. Bathers should post a sign for nude or clothed activity. Come snuggle up!

Birdfeeding

Sep. 1st, 2026 07:28 pm
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Today is partly sunny and sweltering.  A beautiful day to stay indoors and write!  It's Poetry Fishbowl anyway, so drop by and leave me prompts on the theme of "Help That's Actually Helpful."

I fed the birds.  I've seen a lot of sparrows and house finches; they're hitting the feeders hard.

I put out water for the birds.  Honeybees are draining the shallower watering spots.  

EDIT 9/1/26 -- I did a bit of work around the patio.

EDIT 9/1/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

EDIT 9/1/26 -- I put out more water.

EDIT 9/1/26 -- I watered the new picnic table garden and the telephone pole garden.  More zinnias are blooming in the latter now: several shades of pink, scarlet, and ivory.  :D

EDIT 9/1/26 -- I did more work around the patio.

I watered the house yard plants and the old picnic table.

Cicadas and crickets are singing.

As it is now dark, I am done for the night.

Poem: "Avengers DIY Day"

Sep. 1st, 2026 06:12 pm
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This is today's freebie, prompted by [personal profile] siliconshaman and LJ user My_partner_Doug. It also fills the "recovering from something" square in my 9-1-26 card for the Life Events Bingo fest. It belongs to the series Love Is For Children.

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Audio

Sep. 1st, 2026 04:15 pm
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I just stumbled across this community:

[community profile] voiceinmyear
Welcome to Voice in my ear, a community to share any kind of audio-based narrative entertainment. Here you can recommend, critique, signal boost or otherwise enthuse about:
- podcasts, both fiction and non-fiction
- audiobooks
- podfics
- audio essays - YouTube or other video formats are fine as long as it can be enjoyed without visuals
- apps, platforms or websites to access or discover any of the above

September Starts On A Rough Note...

Sep. 1st, 2026 01:28 pm
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my brother got a bereavement day because his cat, Jimmy, died(My brother sells pet insurance, this is a perk.)
I want to help him out--I know how it is, although Jimmy has been scared of my mom for a long time so we didn't spend a lot of time together.NOTE: Mon didn't, you know, *scare* the cat, she was there helping or something when the cat got scared so he'd see her think "Yikes," and run off.

but I am torn about wanting A. to spend another day of mourning here...it's a lot going through every medical test, how sudden it is(He had something which he seemed to pull through great from earlier in the summer, but here we are. Did he not? Was it something else? The cat *was* sixteen...who knows?
A. is not a great listener or especially good for my concentration on his best day, which this is obviously not...I'm also concerned that he might literally attempt to drown his sorrows which is not very good.(Sometimes I think this might be a problem, but absolutely everyone can and does drink more than I do so what do I know?) And,Process or not, I'm not doing anything I can't pick up some other day.
I did send "Such A Great Body" out for another novella contest last week, though I'm not sure I still believe in it.

Crafts

Sep. 1st, 2026 02:32 pm
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Self-Taught Artist Carves Logs into Amazing Sculptures Using a Chainsaw

An artist is carving out a living by making amazingly-realistic wooden sculptures—after teaching himself how to use a chainsaw. The 53-year-old started carving with chainsaws 30 years ago and now makes thousands, selling his unique commission pieces across the UK. Simon Bogg usuallly spends up to three days working eight hour shifts to craft his most intricate pieces—including horses, birds, rhinos, badgers, and elephants.


I am in awe. I've long admired chainsaw carving as an art form. Most of it is chunky and stylized, owing to the nature of the tool. Those antlers. The soft curves on the elephant. Things like that are challenging in any sculpture. It's hard to imagine getting those results with a chainsaw.

Safety

Sep. 1st, 2026 02:29 pm
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Jews in California

California would allow Jews to voluntarily identify their Jewish heritage on state forms under a bill the state Legislature passed yesterday on Monday.
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“When it comes to government holding lists of Jews, we do not trust your privacy guardrails,” Levy said at a hearing on the bill.



What he said. I may be pissed with Israel, but that doesn't mean I think it's a good idea for a government to track Jews. Especially a genocide-loving country like America.
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Fandom 50 #25

For 2001, we've got a love triangle song that isn't just by some very famous Canadian musicians, but about them too. I don't think it was actually common knowledge when this song first got big, but it was apparently inspired by Sloan co-frontman Chris Murphy's relationship with singer/songwriter Feist, who was herself also dating Andrew Whiteman, guitarist of indie rock music collective Broken Social Scene, at the time.

The Other Man by Sloan

Poetry Fishbowl Open!

Sep. 1st, 2026 01:54 pm
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The Poetry Fishbowl is now CLOSED. Thank you all for your time and attention. Please keep an eye on this page as I am still writing.

Starting now, the Poetry Fishbowl is open! Today's theme is "Help That's Actually Helpful." I will be checking this page periodically throughout the day. When people make suggestions, I'll pick some and weave them together into a poem ... and then another ... and so on. I'm hoping to get a lot of ideas and a lot of poems.

I'll be soliciting ideas for caregivers, first responders, clergy, outreach workers, philanthropists, an anonymous benefactor, good samaritans, activists, volunteers, handyworkers, repairmen, teachers, parents, comares, superheroes, supervillains, adventurers, other helpful people, lending a hand, responding to emergencies, volunteering, making donations, supporting people in hard times, learning to trust others, offering crash space, helping someone move, planting trees, creating intimacy, making friends, getting to know each other, cooking together, discovering things, improvising, adapting, cooperating, bartering, sharing, fixing what's broke, changing the world, accomplishing the impossible, All Together Schools, Parea, Triton Teen Centers, Thalassia, Rutledge Vermont, the Peace Store, Soup to Nuts, charities, homeless shelters, clothing banks, food pantries, soup kitchens, sobering centers, community clinics, mentor circles, support groups, churches, sharehouses, intentional communities, other polyhomes, gay bars, feminist bookstores, social justice departments in schools, clubs, quiet rooms, accommodations closets, inclusive workplaces, the Maldives, the Lacuna, Quaker communities, free pirate islands, community gardens, other helper hangouts, emergency aid, accessibility kits, intentional neighboring, altruism, skills heroes need, harm reduction, diversity, inclusivity, safety pin peace signs, other activist symbols, interfaith work, family dynamics, alternative family structures, partnerships not based on sex/romance, emotional closeness, nonsexual intimacies, first contact, rescue, interspecies relationships, trial and error, trust issues, teamwork, found family, complementary strengths and weaknesses, personal growth, and poetic forms in particular.


100 things you can do to help others for FREE
100 Ways to Build Connection, Community & Belonging
100 Ways to Help Others
101 Ways to Be the Change  
150 Random Acts of Kindness


Currently eligible bingo card(s) for donors wishing to sponsor a square:

Life Events Bingo Fest Card 9-1-26

Among my more relevant series for the main theme:

An Army of One shows neurodiverse folks helping each other.

The Blueshift Troupers travel the galaxy helping colonies solve problems.

Clay of Life depends on the friendship between a blacksmith and a golem.

A Conflagration of Dragons involves refugees running to their allies.

Coracle Shores follows two siblings escaping from a wrecked world to a fae world, seeking help to settle there.

Daughters of the Apocalypse relies a lot on mutual aid for survival.

Fiorenza the Wisewoman is a source of help to her whole village.

Frankenstein's Family has diverse subgroups interacting to help each other.

Hart's Farm is a community where people routinely use teamwork to care for each other.

The Moon Door features a women's chronic pain support group, which is all about being gentle with each other.

Not Quite Kansas requires the characters to help each other get by in an unfamiliar world.

One God's Story of Mid-Life Crisis involves drunks helping each other out, because they know what really helps.

Peculiar Obligations is about Quakers and pirates balancing each other.

Polychrome Heroics is largely about people helping people. Threads particularly focused on this include Antimatter and Stalwart Stan, Aquariana, the Big One, Iron Horses, Officer Pink, Rutledge, and Trichromatic Attachments.

Quixotic Ideas is set in a world with plenty of magic and a positive tone, where people often help each other and solve challenges peacefully.

Schrodinger's Heroes save the world from alternate dimensions, and they take care of each other.

The Wandering is all about old people traveling in time to their own youth so they can help more.

Or you can ask for something new.

Linkbacks reveal a verse of any open linkback poem.

New to the fishbowl? Read all about it! )

Life Events Bingo Fest Card 9-1-26

Sep. 1st, 2026 01:34 pm
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Here is my card for the Life Events Bingo fest over in [community profile] allbingo. The fest runs from September 1-30. (See all my 2026 bingo cards.)

If you'd like to sponsor a particular square, especially if you have an idea for what character, series, or situation it would fit -- talk to me and we'll work something out. I've had a few requests for this and the results have been awesome so far. This is a good opportunity for those of you with favorites that don't always mesh well with the themes of my monthly projects. I may still post some of the fills for free, because I'm using this to attract new readers; but if it brings in money, that means I can do more of it. That's part of why I'm crossing some of the bingo prompts with other projects, such as the Poetry Fishbowl.

Underlined prompts have been filled.


LIFE EVENTS BINGO

sinceritygetting a license / certificationlonelinessmoving houselearning to do "X"
confusiongaining / losing a jobmid-life crisisschool dancegratitude
trying new thingsoptimismWILD CARDreliefadolescence
excitementtouchedanxietyprideovercome
personal growthleaving the countryrecovering from somethingcompassionmaking friends

But it sounded so good!

Sep. 1st, 2026 07:42 am
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I was at the grocery store yesterday and remembered to look and see if there was such a thing as high protein quick oatmeal. There is! In fact, there is high protein instant oatmeal flavored with banana and chocolate - my favorite flavor combo!! I bought two boxes. Then I came home and researched who had the best deal on it. Walmart. I stopped short of ordering a shitload because I thought maybe I should taste it first.

OMG it's HORRIBLE!! The banana taste will be with me all day. And, not in a good way. The oatmeal tasted like small bits of waterlogged cardboard. NFW. Ugh. Oh well.

Before that I had my swim. There is a new sign on the door to the pool.

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If that pool water is 1 degree above 75, I'll eat my goggles. 80 degrees in their dreams. But, still the swim was good. I went extra early because I had a 7 am appointment at the foot doctor. Three of us arrived at the place for our 6:45 check in but... the doors were locked! I had already checked in on my phone so when they finally did open, it was no big deal. I got another shot and an appointment in 3 weeks. And I was back in my car at exactly 7 am!

My foot is not cured. The doctor says he can still feel the nerve knot but it is sooooooo much better and he thinks it could be totally fixed still without surgery so coolio.

Yesterday I was in the elevator and was joined by one of the house cleaners. I'm embarrassed to say that most of them look like the same person to me and since they have very little English at their disposal and I have exactly zero Spanish. We only exchange Good Mornings and I don't have a hook to distinguish them. But, shit, man, they all know me. As soon as the elevator doors closed, she went to her phone. And then turned it so I could see. There was a photo of about 25 of my creatures on 3 shelves all lined up and smiling!!! I had heard that there was a gaggle of them in one of the cleaning closets. And here she was with a photo of it! With a huge smile on her face, she pointed out the special ones - the bunny and the snowman (which I had totally forgotten about) and the chicken... She told me they were in 6 South (i'm on 3 South). I should have gotten her to send me the photo but I was just so shocked and delighted, I didn't think of it until she was gone. The closets are locked but I'm going to go up there this morning and see if I can sweet talk one of the cleaners into letting me in so I can get a photo.

Ok, so I just did went up to the 6th floor and got in to the closet.

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What a lineup!!

Also, I gotta say that the 6th floor has a very strong shelf game. Here's a selection.

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The only one I know is the flamingo lady.

And I ran into Steve in the elevator and he said the pool was 81 degrees this morning. I can't believe it but I do believe him. What this means is that 81 degrees water is too fucking cold to swim in.

Today's action includes maybe a trip to the package pickup place - depending on when the packages arrive. If it's after 4 then they will wait until Wednesday. The Mariners game starts at 3:45. Yesterday's game was at least fun and interesting even if the Red Sox won in the 10th.

Also yesterday I finally found shank googly eyes. Googly eyes of all sizes are easy to find but they are almost all adhesive. Stick ons that I don't trust to stay on my knitted toys. But finally I found some that you sew on and are small enough. Today they get a first try.

And puzzling and house cleaning. Big day.
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My body seems to utterly resist staying strong and fit.

The hamstring pain was better. I could bend over farther than I could a month ago. Then last week I went to the gym. As I went up the stairs to the check-in floor, a pain shot through my inner left quadricep. It hurt going down the stairs too. I had to dial back my workout that morning. I have had to restrict certain movements all week. Even sitting in certain positions hurt.

My shoulder still hurts. It's better than it was before I started therapy earlier this year, but the pain never fully went away.

My Golfer's Elbow has returned. At least I don't need to go back to therapy for that. I have had to many issues with my elbows that I know all the best exercises to do for it. 

I have to dial back upper body work because of my shoulder and elbow. I have had  to dial back lower body work because of my hamstring and now because of what I believe is an injury to the sartorius muscle. I thought strength training was supposed to make these muscles stronger! I thought I was building myself up. I do mobility work. I take HRT. I am trying to get a good protein intake. What am I doing wrong?

To make matters worse, I fell off Riddle this weekend. It was almost identical to my last fall. She tripped and fell to her knees (she was still getting up when I was getting up).  I went right over her head. This time I wasn't badly injured. My head hit the ground before anything else did, but my helmet saved me there (I remain a helmet evangelist for riders of all ages, experience levels, and riding disciplines). I didn't break anything, but I did whack my right ribs pretty badly. I can't lift anything this week. I couldn't ride on Sunday either. (I also had to buy a new helmet since you're supposed to do that if you hit your head in a fall because it's likely damaged).

So right now my workouts are all just cardio. I either walk outside, walk on the treadmill, or use the stationary bike. I can't use the elliptical because it hurts to pull the handles.  

I think I might have figured out what could be triggering these injuries. I am following a lot of mobility YouTubers lately. I thought mobility was important. Our joints stiffen as we get older. Most of these so-called mobility experts say you should hold deep squats daily and also do regular dead hangs. Yesterday my quad pain was better so I tried the deep squat and I could only go so far before it started to hurt. Maybe my daily deep squats are harming me. They are supposed to be good for hip mobility! The hangs could be causing the elbow pain (I only do them a few times a week when I am at the gym). 

I also have arthritis in my hips. That can't be helping. The crushed disc in my spine probably contributes too.

I have spent my adult life doing everything right and look where it got me. I have friends who haven't used their gym memberships in years and don't have any active hobbies and they aren't complaining about knee, back, or hip pain.

With less than a week until Labor Day, I only have a few days left to get to the pool. The weather has been working against me lately. Plus I can't swim with this riding injury. I hope it goes away by the weekend and the weekend has good weather. I would love nothing more than to spend all of Labor Day at the pool with a picnic and some adult beverages. 

I was hoping to milk what was left of summer, but I guess it's time to let summer go. I was rained out of going to the zoo on Thursday, but my last big summer outing to the Dutchess County Fair. It was huge. We thought we saw everything we wanted to see, but found out we missed a bunch of stuff. We watched part of the horse show (a "chicken little" jumper class), did some shopping (I bought some jewelry and we bought some fudge), watched some skilled craftspeople, ate our favorite foods (pulled pork with mac and cheese and some ice cream for me and a crab cake for him), wandered through the antiques barn and the historic buildings, and walked through the cow, sheep, and goat sheds, petting anything that would let me pet it! We missed the Dessert Destination, the chickens, and the rabbits and cavies.

At one point a couple played steel drums in the entry plaza. I told Kevin it was hilarious that these two old white people were playing steel drums at what was probably the whitest event in the region. 

Had my first rehearsal for Oliver last night. It was a long rehearsal. This is going to be a lot of work. Nancy told me when I walked in that she didn't read me for the role of Old Sally because she said she needed someone funny and she knew I could be funny. That was quite a compliment. I wasn't that funny during the read through last night. I hadn't read the role yet and I hadn't had a chance to feel how I wanted to go with it. The people playing the Sowerberrys are long-time Curtain Call regulars. Kevin and I didn't stand a chance against them.

Let's see how it all goes. I have to do a lot of work before vacation starts on the 19th. 

Our upcoming vacation is a far cry from the summer fun of Chincoteague. I might as well accept it. Fall is coming whether I want it to or not.

I will be working from home most days because of the rehearsal schedule. At least I don't have to worry about refreshing my wardrobe for the season. That can wait a couple of months.
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Femslash February 2021, Day 22.

Title: couch talks.
Fandom: Harley Quinn (Cartoon).
Character/Pairing: Harley Quinn/Poison Ivy.
Rating/Warnings: T, none.
Summary: Femslash February prompt: 43 "Pick up lines only work when I'm drunk."
Word count: 100.

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“Pick up lines only work when I’m drunk, Doctor Isley.”

That’s how Doctor Harleen Quinzel spoke: the tone was professional, or approximated a semblance of it; the words felt odd, more fitting to a friendly outing, as if she expected she and Ivy would be braiding each other’s hair any time soon.

Quinzel talked, but she never asked anything requiring a response. She waited for the silence to build up until Ivy took the bait.

Ivy bit the tip of her tongue, determined not to speak again. Quinzel set down her pen and her hands over her notebook. She waited.




Loneliness

Sep. 1st, 2026 02:18 am
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Psychology suggests the loneliest part of growing older may be realizing that when you stop texting first, some friendships quietly disappear without anyone ever saying goodbye

Loneliness isn't just being alone. It's the gap between the connection you want and what you have. Studies show that quiet, one-sided friendships hit harder as we grow older.


That makes sense for a lot of reasons, but this is one part of loneliness that may prove difficult or impossible to fix. :/

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